I’ve always remembered to find someone that feels like spring, someone that puts sunlight in your heart. Someone that helps you grow, someone that makes you the person you’ve always wanted to be, the best version of you.
A person that will commit to you, themselves, your growth as individuals, humans, and as a relationship. It is important to know you have grown not only together, but individually.
Most of all, they should love you for you; whether this is your baggage, morals, personal opinions, boundaries, etc. Your boundaries will not scare the right person away. This is the best thing to keep in mind, because those things, make you you, they set you apart from everyone else.
Be comfortable, be real, be trusting, be communicative, be yourself, and be VULNERABLE.
I have learned to surrender yourself to the love you want, to all that you are scared of and be vulnerable. This love will meet you halfway, and it will feel like a breath of fresh air.
I met a soul just like mine. I love who I am with him, he makes me the person I want to be. I can feel myself continually grow and become comfortable in the person I am, and the person I am becoming. I have never felt so in-place, like this was meant to be. I prayed for something that would help me get back in my right mind. He was an answer from God, this is him telling me, “Here’s your path.”
* Proverbs 3:5-6 ) Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.
* Psalm 16:11 ) You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand.
* Psalm 37:23-24 ) The LORD makes firm the steps of the one who delights in him; though he may stumble, he will not fall, for the LORD upholds him with his hand.